Pride and Prejudice

Chapter 56 โ€” Teaching Companion

Jane Austen ยท Mountaineers 10th–12th

Coaching, not a script โ€” and not an answer key: every question here has more than one defensible answer.

This chapter's big question

Elizabeth is not engaged to Darcy, yet she will not promise never to accept him. Why does she hold back that promise?

The tension Lady Catherine sets "honour, decorum, prudence--nay, interest" against a young woman who answers, "He is a gentleman; I am a gentleman's daughter; so far we are equal," and who, though she admits "I am not" engaged, will make "no promise of the kind."

Today's focus

Notice how Lady Catherine inspects the park and the rooms before she speaks, and how her talk in the copse grows from demands to threats to insults.

Two core ideas

  • Lady Catherine has heard a report that Elizabeth will marry Darcy and comes to make her swear never to accept him.
  • Elizabeth admits she is not engaged but gives no assurance at all, and Lady Catherine leaves in anger, saying she knows how to act.

The shape at a glance

One morning, about a week after Jane’s engagement, a chaise and four with post horses and a strange livery drives up the lawn at Longbourn. Bingley takes Jane off to the shrubbery, and the visitor proves to be Lady Catherine de Bourgh. She barely returns Elizabeth’s greeting, sits in silence, asks stiffly whether the lady is Elizabeth’s mother and the girl one of her sisters, says the park is very small and the sitting-room inconvenient because its windows face west, answers Mrs. Bennet’s question about the Collinses, and refuses refreshment. Elizabeth expects a letter from Charlotte, but none appears. Lady Catherine asks Elizabeth to walk with her in the little wilderness, looks into two rooms on the way out and calls them decent-looking. In the copse she says a report reached her two days before that Elizabeth will soon marry Mr. Darcy. She is sure it is false, but has come to have it contradicted. Elizabeth answers that the visit will rather confirm it, says she never heard the report, and will not say whether Darcy has made her an offer. Lady Catherine declares that Darcy is engaged to her daughter, then calls it an engagement of a peculiar kind, planned by the two sisters while the cousins were in their cradles. Elizabeth replies that if Darcy is free by honour and inclination, and she is his choice, she may accept him. Lady Catherine warns that his family will censure and shun her, calls her obstinate and ungrateful for last spring’s attentions, and sets the noble descent and fortune of her daughter and nephew against a young woman without family, connections or fortune. Elizabeth answers that he is a gentleman and she a gentleman’s daughter; Lady Catherine asks what her mother was, and who her uncles and aunts are. Asked whether she is engaged, Elizabeth says after a moment that she is not; asked to promise never to be, she refuses. She calls the arguments frivolous and says Lady Catherine has no right to concern herself in her affairs. Lady Catherine adds Lydia’s elopement and patched-up marriage, and asks whether Pemberley is to be polluted. Elizabeth says she has been insulted and turns back to the house. On the way Lady Catherine calls her unfeeling and selfish. Elizabeth says she has not said she means to have him, only that she will act for her own happiness, and that neither duty, honour nor gratitude has any claim on her here. Lady Catherine says she now knows how to act and will carry her point, and at the carriage door takes no leave and sends no compliments to Mrs. Bennet. Elizabeth walks into the house without a word. Upstairs her mother calls the visit very civil and supposes Lady Catherine came only to say the Collinses were well, and Elizabeth is forced into a little lie, since she cannot tell her what was said.

A way in

Begin in the copse. Read aloud from “You can be at no loss, Miss Bennet” to “If I have, I shall be the last person to confess it.” Ask which of Elizabeth’s answers tells Lady Catherine anything at all. Then read from “Tell me, once for all, are you engaged to him?” to “I will make no promise of the kind.” Ask how those two answers differ from the ones before. Leave the reason for the refusal alone for now, because the last written question asks it.

Lesson plan

Retell The student retells the chapter in order: the strange chaise and Bingley’s escape with Jane; the stiff call in the parlour, with the park, the west windows and the refused refreshment; the walk through the hall and down the gravel to the copse; the report and Elizabeth’s refusal to say whether Darcy has made an offer; the claimed engagement and the cradle plan; the threats of censure and the charge of ingratitude; the speech on descent and fortune, Elizabeth’s “gentleman’s daughter” and the question about her mother; “I am not” and the refused promise; Lydia’s marriage and the turn back to the house; “I have said no such thing” and “I shall now know how to act”; the carriage door; and the little falsehood upstairs. Then the student picks the one moment that matters most and says what Austen uses it to show.

Imitate the author After copying, the student writes two short pieces on some smaller quarrel, such as a claim to a seat, a team or a room. First, a four-sentence warning in Lady Catherine’s pattern: a list of three that breaks off with a dash to add a fourth, stronger word; a sentence that repeats that word and explains it; a triple of harsher and harsher words; and a sentence balanced on a semicolon. Then a two-sentence reply in Elizabeth’s pattern: a plain denial, then two parallel clauses joined by semicolons and a short third clause that draws a conclusion and limits it.

Debate Take sides on the last written question. One side argues that Elizabeth refuses the promise on principle, and gathers “I am not to be intimidated,” the point that the promise would not make Darcy’s marriage to his cousin “at all more probable,” and “you have certainly no right to concern yourself in mine.” The other side argues that she refuses for her own sake, and gathers the “moment’s deliberation,” her rule of her own “happiness” and her exact “I have said no such thing.” Each side must answer the other’s strongest line. No side may say that Elizabeth has decided to accept Darcy or expects a proposal, what Darcy feels, who spread the report, or what Lady Catherine will do next.

Purpose Close on what Elizabeth’s answers reveal about her that she never says outright. Lady Catherine says, “I came to try you.” Ask the student what the trial showed, about each woman, and why Austen lets the reader learn it almost entirely through what Elizabeth says aloud, with so little of what she thinks.

Easier Read aloud the parlour call, from “I hope you are well, Miss Bennet” to “a prettyish kind of a little wilderness”; the turn of the copse, from “Tell me, once for all, are you engaged to him?” to “I will make no promise of the kind”; and the ending, from “She is a very fine-looking woman!” to the last line. Talk about what “equipage”, “allurements”, “propriety”, “decorum” and “wilfully” mean in the chapter. Talk through the questions on the inspection of the house and on Elizabeth’s answer about Lydia, then answer the last written question aloud before writing it.

On level Talk through all four discussion questions in order, then write all three written questions as a thesis, the strongest objection and a revised thesis, each with lines from the chapter.

Harder Ask for one argued essay that states Lady Catherine’s case at its strongest, as her best defender would: the cradle plan, family, fortune, connections and Lydia’s marriage. The student then decides which of Elizabeth’s replies answer that case and which only refuse it, and meets the strongest objection. It must not draw on anything that happens later in the book.

Discussion

  1. Before she says why she has come, Lady Catherine calls the park “very small,” finds fault with windows that face “full west,” and looks over two more rooms. What is she looking for?Inference

    What it asks It asks the student to read Lady Catherine’s call at Longbourn before the copse explains it. She makes “no other reply to Elizabeth’s salutation than a slight inclination of the head,” sits down “without saying a word,” and then: “You have a very small park here.” Mrs. Bennet answers, “It is nothing in comparison of Rosings, my Lady, I dare say; but, I assure you, it is much larger than Sir William Lucas’s.” Then: “This must be a most inconvenient sitting-room for the evening in summer: the windows are full west.” She declines refreshment “very resolutely, and not very politely,” asks Elizabeth to walk in “a prettyish kind of a little wilderness,” and on the way out opens the doors into the dining-parlour and drawing-room, “pronouncing them, after a short survey, to be decent-looking rooms.” Elizabeth, expecting a letter from Charlotte, is “completely puzzled.” The card does not say who spread the report; Lady Catherine says only that it “reached me two days ago.”

    One reading

    Evidence for her case. She has come to stop a marriage on grounds of rank, and the house is part of the proof. She measures the park, faults the room and looks over two more “after a short survey,” as if valuing an estate. When she speaks in the copse of “the sphere in which you have been brought up,” she has just looked it over. On this reading the inspection is the first move of the argument, made before Elizabeth knows there is one.

    • “You have a very small park here,” returned Lady Catherine
    • pronouncing them, after a short survey, to be decent-looking rooms, walked on.

    Another reading

    Nothing she needs; this is simply how she moves through the world. The remarks fill a silence until she can get Elizabeth alone, which is the only thing she asks for. On this reading the survey is manner, not method: she takes for granted her right to judge another family’s house. Mrs. Bennet grants it at once, defending the park by Sir William Lucas’s, and that eager reply shows Lady Catherine more about the family than any room could.

    • there seemed to be a prettyish kind of a little wilderness on one side of your lawn.
    • it is much larger than Sir William Lucas’s.”

    Listen for

    • Notices that the remarks on the park and the windows come before any reason for the visit.
    • Sets Mrs. Bennet’s anxious reply (Rosings, Sir William Lucas) beside Lady Catherine’s silence.
    • Links the survey to “the sphere in which you have been brought up,” or argues that it is only manner.
    • Does not say who spread the report.

    If stuck

    • What does Lady Catherine say about the park and the sitting-room?
    • How does Mrs. Bennet answer her?
    • What can a visitor learn about a family by looking at its house?

    A strong answer A strong response chooses and grounds the choice in the parlour scene. One reader finds the case already under way: the park, the windows and the “decent-looking rooms” are the sphere Lady Catherine will later tell Elizabeth not to leave. Another finds only habit: a great lady judging a small house while she waits to be alone with Elizabeth, and a mother who answers by comparing her park with a neighbour’s. The best answers notice that both readings show the same thing, that Lady Catherine looks at the Bennets as a rank before she looks at them as people.

  2. Lady Catherine boasts that her character is “celebrated for its sincerity and frankness.” Later Elizabeth says she does not “pretend to possess equal frankness.” Which of them is more honest in the copse?Character

    What it asks It asks the student to weigh two kinds of honesty. Lady Catherine: “My character has ever been celebrated for its sincerity and frankness; and in a cause of such moment as this, I shall certainly not depart from it.” She says she knows the report “must be a scandalous falsehood” yet has “instantly resolved on setting off for this place.” She says, “Mr. Darcy is engaged to _my daughter_,” and then, after she “hesitated for a moment,” “The engagement between them is of a peculiar kind.” Elizabeth: “I do not pretend to possess equal frankness with your Ladyship. _You_ may ask questions which _I_ shall not choose to answer.” To “Has he, has my nephew, made you an offer of marriage?” she answers, “Your Ladyship has declared it to be impossible.” She adds, “If I have, I shall be the last person to confess it,” and “you are not entitled to know _mine_.” To the plain question she says, “I am not.” The card does not say what Darcy feels or who spread the report.

    One reading

    Elizabeth. She keeps a great deal back, but nothing she says is shown to be false: the narrator’s “unaffected astonishment” backs “I never heard that it was,” and when the plain question comes she answers it, “I am not.” Lady Catherine claims frankness and then overstates: Darcy “is engaged” to her daughter, until a pause shrinks it to an engagement “of a peculiar kind.” She calls the report a falsehood she would not dream of believing, yet travels to Longbourn to stop it. On this reading Elizabeth’s guarded answers are honest, and Lady Catherine’s frankness is only loudness.

    • I do not pretend to possess equal frankness with your Ladyship.
    • The engagement between them is of a peculiar kind.

    Another reading

    Lady Catherine. Whatever her manners, she puts every reason on the table: the cradle plan, the family, the fortune, the connections, Lydia. Elizabeth says plainly that she will not be frank. She turns the question about an offer back on the asker and gives answers built to reveal nothing (“If I have, I shall be the last person to confess it”). On this reading Lady Catherine is rude but open, and Elizabeth is truthful in every word while hiding the whole.

    • Your Ladyship has declared it to be impossible.
    • If I have, I shall be the last person to confess it.

    Listen for

    • Separates not lying from telling everything.
    • Notices Lady Catherine’s pause before “of a peculiar kind.”
    • Weighs Elizabeth’s claim that her own concerns are not Lady Catherine’s to know.
    • Does not say what Darcy feels or who spread the report.

    If stuck

    • What does Lady Catherine say about her own character?
    • Which of Lady Catherine’s questions does Elizabeth refuse to answer, and how?
    • Is keeping something back the same as lying?

    A strong answer A strong response takes a side and tests it against both women’s words. One reader credits Elizabeth: she withholds but never deceives, while Lady Catherine claims an engagement she has to shrink after a pause. Another credits Lady Catherine: she hides none of her reasons, while Elizabeth admits she will not be frank and answers so as to reveal nothing. The best answers ask whether honesty means saying nothing false or keeping nothing back, and notice that Elizabeth gives a plain answer only once, to the one question she chooses to answer.

  3. Lady Catherine says that on his father’s side, Darcy comes from families that are “ancient, though untitled.” Soon after, Elizabeth tells her, “He is a gentleman; I am a gentleman’s daughter; so far we are equal.” Lady Catherine answers, “True.” Why does she agree?Theme

    What it asks It asks the student to explain the one point Lady Catherine concedes. She has said that her daughter and nephew are descended “on the maternal side, from the same noble line; and, on the father’s, from respectable, honourable, and ancient, though untitled, families,” and has set against them “a young woman without family, connections, or fortune.” Earlier she called Elizabeth “a young woman of inferior birth.” Then: “If you were sensible of your own good, you would not wish to quit the sphere in which you have been brought up.” Elizabeth: “In marrying your nephew, I should not consider myself as quitting that sphere. He is a gentleman; I am a gentleman’s daughter; so far we are equal.” Lady Catherine: “True. You _are_ a gentleman’s daughter. But what was your mother? Who are your uncles and aunts? Do not imagine me ignorant of their condition.” Then: “Whatever my connections may be,” said Elizabeth, “if your nephew does not object to them, they can be nothing to _you_.” Elizabeth’s “if your nephew does not object” is a condition; the card does not say what Darcy feels about her family.

    One reading

    Her own words leave her no choice. Lady Catherine ranks families with care, and she has just granted that Darcy’s father’s side holds no title. Elizabeth claims exactly that ground and no more: a gentleman, and a gentleman’s daughter. “So far” keeps the claim inside Lady Catherine’s own scale, so she must say “True,” giving up the point she denied when she spoke of “inferior birth.” On this reading the concession is a point Elizabeth wins by being exact.

    • honourable, and ancient, though untitled, families.
    • He is a gentleman; I am a gentleman’s daughter; so far we are equal.

    Another reading

    It costs her nothing. She grants birth only to move to the ground she cares about, and the “But” comes in the same breath: the mother, the uncles and aunts, “their condition.” Elizabeth’s “so far” has told her where the claim stops, and she goes straight there. Elizabeth denies none of it and moves the question from rank to Darcy’s own choice. On this reading “True” is a tactic, and the argument about rank is not over.

    • But what was your mother? Who are your uncles and aunts?
    • Do not imagine me ignorant of their condition.

    Listen for

    • Notices that Lady Catherine herself has called the fathers’ families “untitled.”
    • Hears “so far” as the limit that makes the claim hard to deny, or as the opening Lady Catherine uses.
    • Notices the “But” that follows “True” at once, and where it turns: to Elizabeth’s mother.
    • Treats rank as a real argument, and does not say what Darcy thinks of Elizabeth’s family.

    If stuck

    • What does Lady Catherine say about the families on the fathers’ side?
    • What does Elizabeth claim, and what does she leave out?
    • Why might a person give up one point in an argument?

    A strong answer A strong response decides why Lady Catherine says “True” and grounds the choice in the four short speeches around it. One reader finds her held by her own scale: she has just called the fathers’ families “untitled,” so a gentleman’s daughter stands on the same ground, and Elizabeth claims no more than that. Another finds a tactic: the point costs her nothing, and her “But” moves at once to the mother, uncles and aunts. The best answers notice that Lady Catherine’s own boast split the families into mothers and fathers, with the noble line on the mother’s side, and that her “But what was your mother?” goes straight to the side where her family outranks Elizabeth’s.

  4. Elizabeth has an answer for every charge until Lady Catherine brings up Lydia’s marriage. Then she stops arguing and says, “You have insulted me, in every possible method.” What, if anything, does that answer admit?Moral reasoning

    What it asks It asks the student to read the one charge Elizabeth does not argue. Lady Catherine: “Not so hasty, if you please. I have by no means done. To all the objections I have already urged I have still another to add. I am no stranger to the particulars of your youngest sister’s infamous elopement. I know it all; that the young man’s marrying her was a patched-up business, at the expense of your father and uncle. And is _such_ a girl to be my nephew’s sister? Is _her_ husband, who is the son of his late father’s steward, to be his brother? Heaven and earth!--of what are you thinking? Are the shades of Pemberley to be thus polluted?” Elizabeth: “You can _now_ have nothing further to say,” she resentfully answered. “You have insulted me, in every possible method. I must beg to return to the house.” Just before, she had already asked “to be importuned no further on the subject.” The card does not say who told Lady Catherine the particulars, or who spread the report.

    One reading

    It admits nothing; it refuses. Elizabeth had met every argument, about the cradle plan, the threats, her birth, with an argument. This charge is not a reason why she should not marry; it is a sneer at her sister and her family, and the only fitting answer to a sneer is to end the talk. She had already asked to be “importuned no further” before Lydia was named, and her stress on “now” marks this as the point past which nothing more can be said. On this reading the short answer is dignity.

    • “You can now have nothing further to say,” she resentfully answered.
    • I must beg, therefore, to be importuned no further on the subject.

    Another reading

    It admits that the charge lands. Elizabeth could turn every other charge by logic or a joke, but not this one, because it rests on a fact she cannot deny: Lydia did elope, and the marriage was “patched-up.” She calls the charge an insult rather than denying it, and the narrator says she answers “resentfully.” On this reading the short answer marks the one place in the copse where Lady Catherine’s case about family carries weight that Elizabeth cannot lift.

    • I am no stranger to the particulars of your youngest sister’s infamous elopement.
    • You have insulted me, in every possible method.

    Listen for

    • Notices that Elizabeth argues with every charge but this one.
    • Asks whether calling something an insult is the same as denying it.
    • Hears the stress on “now” and the narrator’s “resentfully.”
    • Does not say who told Lady Catherine about Lydia or who spread the report.

    If stuck

    • What does Lady Catherine say about Lydia’s marriage?
    • What does Elizabeth answer, and what does she do?
    • Can a charge be true and still be an insult?

    A strong answer A strong response decides and grounds the decision in Elizabeth’s reply. One reader hears a refusal: Lady Catherine has moved from argument to sneer, and Elizabeth will not dignify it, having already asked to hear no more. Another hears a hit: this is the one charge built on a fact she cannot deny, Lydia’s elopement, and Elizabeth answers it with hurt, not with a reason. The best answers notice that the two can both be so, and ask why Austen gives Lady Catherine her strongest point at the very moment she is at her rudest.

Critical thinking

  1. Lady Catherine says Elizabeth’s own “interest” forbids the match: Darcy’s family will shun her. Leave Lady Catherine’s rudeness out of it. How strong is that argument?

    What it asks It asks the student to state Lady Catherine’s most practical argument at its strongest and then judge it. Lady Catherine: “Because honour, decorum, prudence--nay, interest--forbid it. Yes, Miss Bennet, interest; for do not expect to be noticed by his family or friends, if you wilfully act against the inclinations of all. You will be censured, slighted, and despised, by everyone connected with him. Your alliance will be a disgrace; your name will never even be mentioned by any of us.” Elizabeth first answers with a joke: “These are heavy misfortunes,” replied Elizabeth. “But the wife of Mr. Darcy must have such extraordinary sources of happiness necessarily attached to her situation, that she could, upon the whole, have no cause to repine.” Later Lady Catherine adds, “If you were sensible of your own good, you would not wish to quit the sphere in which you have been brought up.” At the end Elizabeth says: “And with regard to the resentment of his family, or the indignation of the world, if the former _were_ excited by his marrying me, it would not give me one moment’s concern--and the world in general would have too much sense to join in the scorn.” Elizabeth’s words are conditional; the card does not say what Darcy feels, whether he will propose, or what Lady Catherine will do next.

    One reading

    Strong. Strip away the rudeness and the warning is concrete, and it is in Lady Catherine’s power to carry out: a wife shut out by her husband’s family loses something real. Lady Catherine also names causes the family could point to, a mother and relations she counts against Elizabeth and a sister’s “patched-up” marriage. Elizabeth meets the warning first with a joke, and later says the family’s resentment “would not give me one moment’s concern,” which waves the cost away rather than weighing it. On this reading “interest” is the best argument Lady Catherine has, and whatever Elizabeth decides, she decides against a real cost.

    • your name will never even be mentioned by any of us.
    • it would not give me one moment’s concern

    Another reading

    Weak. The argument counts only what Elizabeth would lose and leaves out what she might gain, which is exactly where her joke aims. It also measures her good by Lady Catherine’s standard, being “noticed” by Darcy’s family, and it needs “everyone connected with him” to share Lady Catherine’s view, though the engagement she relies on is only “tacit.” On this reading the threat is real but the reasoning is not: Lady Catherine has mistaken her own scorn for everyone’s, and Elizabeth is right that “the world in general” need not follow her.

    • But the wife of Mr. Darcy must have such extraordinary sources of happiness necessarily attached to her situation
    • and the world in general would have too much sense to join in the scorn.

    Listen for

    • States the “interest” argument at its strongest before judging it.
    • Separates the force of the threat from the manners it comes with.
    • Weighs Elizabeth’s joke as an answer, or as a way around one.
    • Does not say what Darcy feels or whether he will propose.

    If stuck

    • What does Lady Catherine say will happen to Elizabeth if she marries Darcy?
    • Which of those things could Lady Catherine actually make happen?
    • Can a rude person still make a good argument?

    A strong answer A strong response might argue that the argument is stronger than its manners: Lady Catherine names a cost she and the family can impose, and Elizabeth answers it with a joke and a shrug rather than a reason. Key evidence to consider includes the threat that Elizabeth’s “name will never even be mentioned.” The strongest objection is that the argument counts only losses, measures Elizabeth’s good by whether Darcy’s family will notice her, and assumes the whole family thinks as Lady Catherine does. A revised thesis might hold that “interest” is a fair forecast of cost but a poor reason, because it leaves out everything the marriage itself might be worth, and that the chapter leaves the reader to weigh a cost Elizabeth refuses to count.

  2. Upstairs, Mrs. Bennet decides the visit was “prodigiously civil.” The narrator says Elizabeth is “forced to give in to a little falsehood.” What forces her?

    What it asks It asks the student to explain why the truth is “impossible” at home, when nothing Lady Catherine said in the copse could force Elizabeth’s hand. Mrs. Bennet: “She is a very fine-looking woman! and her calling here was prodigiously civil! for she only came, I suppose, to tell us the Collinses were well. She is on her road somewhere, I dare say; and so, passing through Meryton, thought she might as well call on you. I suppose she had nothing particular to say to you, Lizzy?” The narrator: “Elizabeth was forced to give in to a little falsehood here; for to acknowledge the substance of their conversation was impossible.” Earlier Mrs. Bennet told the visitor that Jane was “walking with a young man, who, I believe, will soon become a part of the family,” and was “delighted to speak to a Lady Catherine.” In the copse Lady Catherine asked whether the report had been “industriously circulated by yourselves,” asked “what was your mother?” and at the carriage said, “I send no compliments to your mother.” The card does not say who spread the report, that Elizabeth has decided to accept Darcy, or that she expects a proposal.

    One reading

    What her mother would do with the truth. Lady Catherine asked whether the report had been “industriously circulated by yourselves,” and Mrs. Bennet is the one person at Longbourn who would circulate it: she tells a stranger about Jane’s young man within a minute of meeting her. To tell her the substance would set the report loose at once, the report Elizabeth said she never heard. On this reading the force is her mother’s tongue, and the lie protects Elizabeth.

    • walking with a young man, who, I believe, will soon become a part of the family.
    • Has it not been industriously circulated by yourselves?

    Another reading

    What the truth would do to her mother. The substance includes “what was your mother?”, Lydia’s “patched-up business” and “I send no compliments to your mother.” To report the talk would be to repeat its insults to the woman they were aimed at, who has just called the visitor “a very fine-looking woman.” On this reading the force is kindness: the guarding Elizabeth used in the copse, now turned to shield someone else.

    • I send no compliments to your mother.
    • “She is a very fine-looking woman!

    Listen for

    • Collects what the “substance” would include: the report, the demand, the insults to the family.
    • Notices that Mrs. Bennet has already told the visitor about Jane’s young man.
    • Sets “forced” upstairs beside the copse, where threats could not move Elizabeth.
    • Does not say who spread the report or that Elizabeth has decided to accept Darcy.

    If stuck

    • What does Mrs. Bennet think the visit was for?
    • What did Lady Catherine say about Elizabeth’s mother?
    • What would Mrs. Bennet do if she knew what was said?

    A strong answer A strong response might argue that her mother’s tongue forces the lie: Mrs. Bennet would spread news of a possible match with Darcy, as she boasts of Jane’s to the visitor almost at once. Key evidence to consider includes that boast about the young man who “will soon become a part of the family.” The strongest objection is that the truth would hurt Mrs. Bennet more than her daughter, since much of what was said in the copse was aimed at her. A revised thesis might hold that both press at once, and that the chapter ends on a turn: threats could not move Elizabeth in the copse, but her mother’s easy question forces a falsehood.

  3. Elizabeth is not engaged to Darcy, yet she will not promise never to accept him. Why does she hold back that promise?

    What it asks It asks the whole question of the chapter. Lady Catherine: “Tell me, once for all, are you engaged to him?” The narrator: “Though Elizabeth would not, for the mere purpose of obliging Lady Catherine, have answered this question, she could not but say, after a moment’s deliberation,--” “I am not.” “Lady Catherine seemed pleased.” “And will you promise me never to enter into such an engagement?” “I will make no promise of the kind.” Then: “I am not to be intimidated into anything so wholly unreasonable. Your Ladyship wants Mr. Darcy to marry your daughter; but would my giving you the wished-for promise make _their_ marriage at all more probable? Supposing him to be attached to me, would _my_ refusing to accept his hand make him wish to bestow it on his cousin?” And: “you have certainly no right to concern yourself in mine.” Asked “You are then resolved to have him?” she answers, “I have said no such thing. I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness, without reference to _you_, or to any person so wholly unconnected with me.” The card does not say that Elizabeth has decided to accept Darcy, that she expects a proposal, what Darcy feels, or what Lady Catherine will do next; she says only, “I shall now know how to act.”

    One reading

    On principle. A promise forced out by threats would grant Lady Catherine the very right she claims, to govern another family’s daughter. Elizabeth gives her reasons aloud: she will not be “intimidated,” the promise would not make Darcy any likelier to marry his cousin, and Lady Catherine has “no right” to concern herself. On this reading the refusal is about who decides, not about Darcy; Elizabeth would refuse the same demand about any man.

    • I am not to be intimidated into anything so wholly unreasonable.
    • you have certainly no right to concern yourself in mine.

    Another reading

    For her own sake. Even “I am not” costs her “a moment’s deliberation,” and her rule is to act as will “constitute my happiness.” A promise would close a door that rule keeps open. She is exact with each answer: she is not engaged, she will not promise, and she has “said no such thing” about meaning to have him. On this reading she holds back the promise because she will not sign away a question she has not yet answered for herself, and the chapter never tells us what that answer would be.

    • after a moment’s deliberation,--
    • I have said no such thing. I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness

    Listen for

    • Notices how exact Elizabeth’s answers are: “I am not,” “I will make no promise of the kind,” “I have said no such thing.”
    • Weighs the reasons Elizabeth gives aloud against anything she leaves unsaid.
    • Uses the “moment’s deliberation” before her one plain answer.
    • Does not read the refusal as proof that she expects a proposal or has decided to accept one.

    If stuck

    • What two things does Lady Catherine ask, and how does Elizabeth answer each?
    • What reasons does Elizabeth give for refusing the promise?
    • Why might someone refuse to promise something they have no plan to do?

    A strong answer A strong response might argue that Elizabeth refuses on principle: a promise extracted by threat would hand Lady Catherine a right over her that no one has. Key evidence to consider includes her own reasons, that she will not be “intimidated” and that the promise would not make Darcy any likelier to marry his cousin. The strongest objection is that principle alone does not explain the care in her answers: the “moment’s deliberation,” the rule of her own happiness, and the precise “I have said no such thing,” which refuses to settle a question either way. A revised thesis might hold that principle gives Elizabeth a reason she can say aloud, while it also protects a choice she does not name, and that Austen never tells us which reason weighs more.

Vocabulary definitions

equipage
It was too early in the morning for visitors; and besides, the equipage did not answer to that of any of their neighbours. A carriage with its horses, servants and fittings, kept as a show of rank (from French équiper, to fit out, the root of equip). The chapter announces Lady Catherine by her equipage before it names her: a chaise and four, post horses, a strange livery. Rank arrives at Longbourn before the person does.
allurements
But your arts and allurements may, in a moment of infatuation, have made him forget what he owes to himself and to all his family. Charms used to tempt someone or draw them in (from lure, the bait a falconer swung to call a hawk back). Lady Catherine pairs “arts and allurements”: she cannot picture a match with Elizabeth as a free choice, so she pictures a trap. The word shows how she thinks of marriage more than anything Elizabeth has done.
propriety
Are you lost to every feeling of propriety and delicacy? The sense of what is fitting and correct, above all for one’s place in society (from Latin proprius, one’s own, the root of proper and property). Lady Catherine treats propriety as a feeling Elizabeth has lost. Its root points to the question under the whole quarrel: what belongs to whom, and who decides.
decorum
“Because honour, decorum, prudence--nay, interest--forbid it. Behaviour that suits what polite society expects; good form (from Latin decorus, fitting; related to decent and decorate). Lady Catherine sets “decorum” second in her list of what forbids the match. To her, a marriage across rank is a breach of good form, a social mistake made in public.
wilfully
Yes, Miss Bennet, interest; for do not expect to be noticed by his family or friends, if you wilfully act against the inclinations of all. On purpose, by one’s own will, against the wishes of others (from will and full; American spelling willfully). Lady Catherine’s word makes a choice a fault in itself: to act “wilfully” is to set one person’s will against “the inclinations of all.” Elizabeth later claims the right to act for her own happiness, and the reader must decide whether that is wilfulness.
Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen. Project Gutenberg ebook 1342.