Chapter 37

Pride and Prejudice

Mountaineers · 10th–12th

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Mr. Darcy’s letter she was in a fair way of soon knowing by heart. She studied every sentence; and her feelings towards its writer were at times widely different. When she remembered the style of his address, she was still full of indignation: but when she considered how unjustly she had condemned and upbraided him, her anger was turned against herself; and his disappointed feelings became the object of compassion. His attachment excited gratitude, his general character respect: but she could not approve him; nor could she for a moment repent her refusal, or feel the slightest inclination ever to see him again. In her own past behaviour, there was a constant source of vexation and regret: and in the unhappy defects of her family, a subject of yet heavier chagrin. They were hopeless of remedy.

Anxiety on Jane’s behalf was another prevailing concern; and Mr. Darcy’s explanation, by restoring Bingley to all her former good opinion, heightened the sense of what Jane had lost. His affection was proved to have been sincere, and his conduct cleared of all blame, unless any could attach to the implicitness of his confidence in his friend. How grievous then was the thought that, of a situation so desirable in every respect, so replete with advantage, so promising for happiness, Jane had been deprived, by the folly and indecorum of her own family!

The long sentence about Jane says what she lost, and only at its very end says who took it from her. Why might Austen hold that back until last?

Discussion

Narration Tell the chapter back in order. Start with Mr. Collins at the lodges as the gentlemen leave. End with Miss de Bourgh holding out her hand. Then choose the one sentence that matters most, and say what Austen is doing with it.

1. At dinner, Elizabeth smiles to herself as she pictures Lady Catherine’s anger if she had accepted Darcy. On her walks, she blames her father for laughing at her youngest sisters. Is her smile the same kind of laughing as his?Character

2. Lady Catherine tells Elizabeth, “Daughters are never of so much consequence to a father.” By the end of the chapter, would Elizabeth say Lady Catherine is wrong?Inference

3. Every day Elizabeth takes a walk alone, to “indulge in all the delight of unpleasant recollections.” Is the narrator teasing her, or is there real delight in it?Tone

4. Elizabeth now sees how unjustly she condemned Darcy. Yet she does not regret refusing him, not for a moment. Do those two things fit together?Character

5. Bingley is cleared of all blame, except perhaps one: he trusted his friend too completely. How much should that count against him?Moral reasoning

Make a Connection Think of someone, in a book or in your own life, who saw a fault in their own family more clearly than the rest of the family did. What did seeing it cost them?

Vocabulary

consequence Daughters are never of so much consequence to a father.
propriety Miss Darcy, the daughter of Mr. Darcy of Pemberley, and Lady Anne, could not have appeared with propriety in a different manner.
upbraided When she remembered the style of his address, she was still full of indignation: but when she considered how unjustly she had condemned and upbraided him, her anger was turned against herself; and his disappointed feelings became the object of compassion.
implicitness His affection was proved to have been sincere, and his conduct cleared of all blame, unless any could attach to the implicitness of his confidence in his friend.
indecorum How grievous then was the thought that, of a situation so desirable in every respect, so replete with advantage, so promising for happiness, Jane had been deprived, by the folly and indecorum of her own family!
condescension When they parted, Lady Catherine, with great condescension, wished them a good journey, and invited them to come to Hunsford again next year; and Miss de Bourgh exerted herself so far as to courtesy and hold out her hand to both.

Critical thinking

1. Elizabeth calls her family’s faults “hopeless of remedy.” On the last evening, Maria repacks her whole trunk because Lady Catherine told her to. Is Elizabeth right that nothing can be done?

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2. Elizabeth now blames Jane's loss on the Bennets' own behaviour. Is that fair, when Darcy was the one who kept Bingley away?

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